New Prospective's.

The beginning is always the best part when dealing with a new prospective. Everything seems to be in sync and the feelings are mutual. This is what I call the courting faze. When going into a new situation, you always put your best foot forward. The necessary drama is almost non existent because the prospective is still trying to "get in good". There is of course the snickering of outside sources informing you of the pros and cons of the situation like clockwork, but everything is still copastetic. As a scorned individual, the pessimistic nature seems to always sit in the back of your head like a constant tick, telling you to wait for the downfall. When deciding to deal with a new prospective, you tend to always seek an individual who is not like the past. Sometimes you go out looking for an upgraded version, but end up with the same quality as the last. Maybe that person is not as you expect, but who are you to know for sure. Not every human being is necessarily the same, but it seems as if every individual of the same sex seems to sum up to being horrible and calculating. But one should always go into something with the hope that it is not going to turn out to be like the rest. There are in fact good and genuine individuals out there in the world. But if you are someone like myself, those individuals have not shown themselves and one can grow tired. So as you sit there contemplating a situation, you're almost telling yourself that it's not going to be a complete catastrophe. How can it be? Everything is grandeur! My only advice would be to go into something with your thinking cap on. As I've stated before, not every person is the same, but be smart about every situation you put yourself into when dealing with a new prospective. You never know what could happen, maybe that could be the one you can fall unconditionally and irrevocably in love with. Yea, there is sometimes when you don't necessarily want to put yourself out there with the fear or feelings not be reciprocated. That has to be the worst feeling! Being open and honest with your intentions is what one needs to always put out there. How can you expect someone to understand the way you are feeling if you are scared of the outcome. That is where your thinking cap comes into play. If you are in fear of mutual feelings, then maybe you shouldn't have put yourself in the said situation to begin with. Everyone wants to have a mature situation. Mature in the sense that you can be open and realistic about the outcome of things. In all, just be happy and involve yourself in situations where you are going to be happy. Maybe this one could be it, but until then do you. There is not harm in being alone.